PGC: What I Learned

Learning Outcomes: Awareness of Strengths/Growths, Challenges/Skills, Perseverance/Commitment, Collaboration

Peer Group Connection was one of the most challenging activities I have enrolled myself in so far. Right from the beginning, I knew it would be hard work and would take a lot of commitment. I wanted to do the best job I could, and I believe I've been able to do so, but looking back I do believe I could have done things a little differently. I didn't know, or I was simply not prepared, to handle a group of eleven Freshmen kids; I don't think any of us were. I've definitely learned a few things about myself, the overall experience, and the character it takes to be a leader.

One of the few things I struggled with was coming up with solutions to problems on the spot. When you're dealing with a group of teenagers, as a teenager yourself, it is hard to gain control of the situation at times. It was especially hard to keep them focused, since all they really wanted to do was joke about, or in other cases, do absolutely nothing at all. I would get especially anxious, and frustrated when they wouldn't listen; we had a limited amount of time to carry out planned activities, and discussions to finish. I managed to lead the group, but I wish I could've been able to more efficiently. Another challenge I struggled with was cooperating with my PGC partner. We both had different versions of leadership; he was a lot more laid back, and you could say I was "strict". At times, it was difficult to work together, and agree on a way to teach our lessons, but we always managed to collaborate. At the end of the day, we both realized PGC was not about us, but instead, about the kids and their transition into high school. So we managed to put our differences aside, and come out successful. Collaboration is definitely the key to success.

Through the different challenges I faced, I've learned a lot about myself, and the character I hold. I already knew being a leader was difficult, but this opportunity completely opened my eyes to a different side to leadership. Patience is definitely needed to be able to move forward with what needs to be done, and a calm attitude will always get you far. I do admit I've grown to liking these kids a ton. I completely saw myself in their shoes--a reflection of who I was just a few years ago, sitting in eleven different nervous chairs.

Peer Group Connection has helped me grow as a person. The process of it has been eye opening, and has let me mature and learn about the different sides of leadership. It was a very rewarding experience, and definitely one I won't forget.

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